When Your Friend Dates Your Ex and Vice-Versa (in GIFs with Feelings)

 

Nagulat ako may ganito palang kanta.

Ang dami-daming kanta tungkol sa pag-iwan, panloloko, etc., pero hindi ko inexpect na may susulat ng kanta tungkol sa pagsulot ng ex ng kaibigan mo. May mga bagay kasi na hindi dapat ginagawa (katulad ng cheating) pero sobrang common. At may mga bagay na HINDI TALAGA DAPAT GINAGAWA, ni magsulat ng kanta tungkol dun ay hindi uso. Pero eto merong isa.

Anong point ko? :)) Natrigger itong post na to dahil nakita ko yung kaibigan ko nagpost nito sa wall nya. Naalala ko tuloy yung ex-friend ko. Ex-friend kasi di na pwedeng pagkatiwalaan yung mga ganung klaseng tao. I’m scared for my friends. They should be wary, too. A friend who can’t even keep her hands off your ex or even make an effort not to jump at your ex can’t be my friend. :)

At lalong lalo nang hindi mapagkakatiwalaan ang mga kaibigang ipinagpapalit ang friendship nyo para sa isang lalaki. Tell me, friends: How can I trust someone who’s like that, again? Maliban na lang kung sasabihin nyang nagayuma sya at nauntog, o naawa sya kasi kaawa awa si ex, o tinutukan sya ng kutsilyo o baril para gawin yun. Pero hindi. Ginusto mo yan eh.

Insensitive prick.

Basta ako, I will take pride that my friends can trust me not to jump at any or all opportunity to take the people they like or had a relationship with.

Mean Girls: a refresher course for bitches. You probably need to rewatch this, honey.

Hide yo exes, friends. Ingat-ingat na lang po sa mga taong pinagpapalit ang tiwala at friendship nyo para sa lalaki. :) Umiwas po tayo sa mga punyetang tao at punyetang pag-uugali. Wag tularan.

I’m done. No more talking about this shit. This wasted five minutes of my life. And you just made me realize you wasted so much of mine.

I pray that no one reading this experiences this. If you’re reading right now, don’t forget to tell me what you think: Friends dating Exes: Yay or Nay? Leave a comment below!

16 comments to When Your Friend Dates Your Ex and Vice-Versa (in GIFs with Feelings)

  • stacy |crumpylicious  says:

    Hmm… I can’t really say till I experienced this situation e hehe. Medyo manhid and logical rin kasi ako as a person

    • dollhana  says:

      So what does your logical brain tell you, Stace? :P

      • stacy |crumpylicious  says:

        logically is you’ve broken up, the commitment and exclusivity rule no longer applies. I’ll be happy with whoever he dates.

        • dollhana  says:

          That’s true, Stacy. Pero friends JUST SHOULDN’T date friends’ exes. It’s not about commitment and exclusivity. It’s about friendship, and not doing things that could potentially ruin one. But oh well, I guess our friendship, and her friendship with other people, don’t really mean anything when it comes to a man, no?

          • stacy |crumpylicious  says:

            I haven’t experienced this so I can’t really say but watching tv series like gossip girl and many many others. Their still barkada kahit na papalit palit lang sila ng partners within the group =))

  • Nix  says:

    NAY! I so agree with Gretchen Weiners! Ex-boyfriends are 100% off limits to friends. I cannot imagine myself hanging out with a friend with my ex-boyfriend. Awkward! I mean, there is such a thing as the unspoken girl code. :) NAY! NAY! NAY! I have ever experienced this because I make sure that I have trustworthy friends. Quality over quantity. ;) Haha. But I’m sure blood is going to spill if that happens to me. LOL!

    • dollhana  says:

      I know, right? I really thought I had trustworthy friends. Ang dami pa naman naming common friends. They should seriously watch out, because if it happened to me, it can happen to them. :< There are so many people in this planet, and they had to choose one which would cause the end of a friendship.

  • Macy  says:

    You are so bitter. I pity you. You still want your ex on a leash even though you’re no longer together.

    • dollhana  says:

      Please don’t talk like you know anything. I don’t care about the ex. I care about the friendship I lost, which I lost to an ex.

    • dollhana  says:

      Also, I just want to let you know I’m happy you’re taking time to reply to my personal posts. People like you motivate me to keep it real. With that said…

      haters to the left

  • Karen  says:

    Must be nice to live in a world where everyone who disagrees with you is a hater.

  • Alex  says:

    All is fair in love and war. Ranting about it incessantly just shows why you’re not good enough.

  • Hainrihi  says:

    I don’t even know why people are going against you in writing this? I mean, I don’t know if they don’t value friendships, but if you do, you would never EVER date a friend’s ex—especially when they just broke up. Put some sense into. Kung napakahalaga ng friendship mo sa iyo, kahit gaano mo kagusto yung lalaki, you won’t jump into the ex of your friend. Ibig sabihin lang non, wala kang pinahahalagahan sa years of friendship nyo and you’ll just throw it away to jump into the ex. Respect naman on both the friendship and sa tao

    • dollhana  says:

      Hey Joan. Thanks for taking the time to leave a comment. I’m pretty sure these people know more than what can be inferred from my post. They’re just defending their friend. :) I probably hit a nerve, but it’s my blog so I think I can write anything I want and they shouldn’t feel offended by it. They’ve been keeping watch of my personal posts for a while now, and always taking the opportunity to leave a comment to try to make me feel bad about myself :)

      But thanks! I really appreciate you dropping by.

  • alvin imperial  says:

    friends dating ex’s? hehe . tough scenario.. well for me, “get out of my way” ang peg ko nyn… lol i am not saying that just because i am bitter but helooo ashamed on them! konting hiya nmn s akin, gnun na ba kakapal ng feslak nla pra ipamukha pa skin kng ano meron sila? hehe well if they don’t respect me as a friend, just respect me as a person na lang, my utak nmn cguro cla pra maisip un. thats it. sna nka connect ung comment ko sa issue. :D

  • Eddielli Bungay  says:

    Parang yung kay Kim Chiu lang at kay maja salvador, haha! Ewan ko pero hindi pa ako nagkakabf. kaya wala pa kong ex! Para sa akin masakit din nga yun! Pede pa naman kayo magind Friends pero hindi yung mapgkakatiwalaan mong kaibigan. Meron akong kaibigan na may bf tapos inagaw ng isa ko pang kaibigan. Ang ginawa nya dinededma na lang nya. Kapag pinansin saka lang siya magsasalita o kikibo ganun. Pero friends ko pa rin yung dalawa, yun lang tsinetsempuhan ko na hindi mag krus ang landas.

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